Self-Confidence

Self-Confidence is the most important factor for success in school or at work. Do you agree or disagree?

I believe that the more self-confidence you have, the more you value yourself and your capabilities, which mean the more valuable you feel, this is what creates the effect of naturally holding your head up high, since you have high self esteem and are proud of whom you are.

You are healthier physically and psychologically. You feel good about yourself and you expect others to give you the same respect. You're more confident in your abilities, better social life and relationships with friends and family. For arguments sake, let’s say you have a clear idea of what self-confidence is, and you appreciate that you already have everything it takes to become more self confident. One of the most important things for you to understand about self-confidence is that it is great and useful thing to have, but not the 'right' thing to have.

Indeed, just like it's right or wrong for a glass to be empty, it's neither right nor wrong to be full of self-confidence or to lack self-confidence. It is important to appreciate that one of the most important benefits of being more self confident is that it naturally helps you become stronger and stronger over time, with everything you encounter and experience, rather than weaker and weaker.

Refiloe Senatle a student at Damelin Braamfontein Campus says "I believe self-confidence is the most important factor for success in school, at work or in life, because when you have confidence you are able to conquer anything that you put your mind into. Confidence is about self believe, when your self-esteem is very high you are capable of telling yourself and believing in yourself that you are able to achieve whatever you put your mind to, so definitely self-confidence is important because if you don’t believe in yourself who will? You have to start believing yourself that you can do something in order for other people to believe that you can, so that’s why you need to have self-confidence and high self esteem about yourself, it all goes back to loving yourself before others can love you, you need to appreciate know yourself know your weaknesses and your strong point to be able to know where you will be able to do a good job and where you not and where you will have to improve where you can't".

Not being able to see your own issues or accept your own mistakes. Self centered, cannot relate with others well may have relationship problems due to narcissism